Archive for November, 2010

Sobering article about corruption in Guatemala in UK’s Guardian

Friday, November 12th, 2010

Stevan Whitehead posted this article from the UK Guardian about corruption in Guatemala on the listserve known to the adoption community as the “Big List.” The report cites shocking statistics such as “Nearly 15 years [after the Guatemalan civil war peace accords], more people die in Guatemala every year than did at the height of the civil war… a staggering 53 per 100,000.”

As someone who tries to follow Guatemalan politics, I have read many of the article’s statistics elsewhere. But to see them gathered in one place and to ponder their impact is almost mind-boggling.  Will the situation ever improve? And if so, how? The irregularities committed in some (still unknown and debatable) percentage of adoptions processed in Guatemala can be viewed as only a tiny tip of the country’s enormous iceberg of corruption. 

While drug-related violence along the borders of Mexico is notorious, the “even deadlier battle directly to the south has generated little comment.” Drug cartels pushed south from Mexico are now entrenched in Guatemala.

The article talks about how Presidents Arzu and Portillo “implemented key provisions of the peace accords half-heartedly, if at all.” By 2007, the country’s “clandestine criminal networks had spent a decade successfully inserting themselves into virtually every manifestation of the state.” During the 2007 electoral contest between current President Colom and Otto Perez Molina, “more than 50 candidates and party activists were slain.”

(Think about that!)

The “one ray of hope” is the CICIG, mandated in 2007 by the United Nations and “charged with investigation of clandestine organizations.”  The last paragraph sums up the situation thusly:

“Guatemala’s fragile civil society of honest officials, human rights groups and indigenous organisations desperately needs support. As the international community–and especially the United States–saw fit to pour money into the Guatemalan military machine that helped create the criminal oligarchy that now wields such power in the country, it is only just that they should now back the efforts of CICIG and honest Guatemalans in their struggle to bring this monster down. “

Please take time to read the full article here: http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/cifamerica/2010/nov/11/guatemala-mexico/print

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Adoption case in St. Louis before Missouri Supreme Court

Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

Some readers who are familiar with the raid on a Missouri chicken processing plant in May 2007 in which 136 alleged undocumented immigrants were picked up, may be interested in one outcome of that action. A Guatemalan woman, Encarnacion Romero, was jailed, her infant son given to her sister, and then left in the care of a church, which subsequently adopted him to Seth and Melinda Moser. Ms. Romero, backed by the Guatemalan consulate and the ACLU, is now fighting to get back her son. The case is being heard by the Missouri Supreme Court. The few first paragraphs are pasted below. Read the full article here, and be sure to read the comments, which shed light on readers’ opinions about adoption and immigration. 

“Lawyers for a Guatemalan woman facing deportation urged Missouri’s Supreme Court today to undo an adoption that has kept her from her 4-year-old child since she was jailed on identity theft charges in 2007.”

“The woman, Encarnacion Romero, was one of 136 alleged undocumented immigrants picked up at a raid of a Barry County chicken processing plant in May 2007 and later charged with various offenses related to the illegal use of false or stolen social security numbers.”

“While Romero was in jail, her child, an infant at the time, was passed around among family members before eventually being adopted by a Carthage couple, Seth and Melinda Moser. All three parents were in court for arguments today.”

“In court documents and arguments in court today, Romero’s attorneys argue that she was denied due process rights because the adoption took place while she was in jail, she lacked proper legal representation and didn’t understand what was going on because she doesn’t speak English. A state appeals court has previously ruled in her favor.” …

“It’s a clash of two seemingly unrelated interests – those concerned about the aftermath of immigration raids that often lead to split families still seeking resolution years later, and those who are fighting for the rights of adoptive parents.”

http://www.stltoday.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/article_989ea858-ec04-11df-b93f-00127992bc8b.html

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A day in the garden, pancake breakfast, and a book swap

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

For the past few weeks, Tim has been traveling, but by Friday he was back, and I was relieved to return to our usual routine. After Olivia’s ballet class on Saturday, we checked on the garden. The California weather has been warm enough that we still have tomatoes, some strawberries, the ever-growing hot peppers, and our favorite old-standby, Meyer lemons. While Olivia and Mateo played “fort” and “chase” and “Miwok Indians” under the weeping willow, Tim and I weeded the beds and picked the fruit, filling our baskets and buckets to overflowing. That afternoon we made jam, which the kids ate by the spoonful; and a huge vat of tomato sauce, which, I have to say, is among the best I’ve ever eaten. California’s climate is forgiving. Even when Tim is away and I ignore the garden for a few days, our hardy plants manage to thrive.

On Sunday, after church, our parish hosted a pancake breakfast. Olivia asked me to take a picture of the design she made on hers, and to post it on my blog. Afterwards, we went to the church’s annual book swap. Unbelievable! Within five minutes, I’d scooped up What is the What (Dave Eggers), White Teeth (Zadie Smith), The History of Love (Nicole Krauss), Let the Great World Spin (Colum McCann), American Wife (Curtis Sittenfeld), Shopgirl (Steve Martin), and The Autobiography of Johnny Cash. And this was just the first table! The kids each walked out with bags so heavy they dragged on the floor. People in our neighborhood read some fantastic books, and are generous by recycling them.  I’m still pinching myself.

Mateo just got home from a Lego birthday party, while Olivia and Tim are squeezing the last Meyer lemons for lemonade and sprinkling salt over homegrown tomatoes. Homework is done. Laundry is folded. We’re ready to face the new week.

I once read a poem that began, “Be happy if there’s something to be happy about.”

Right now, I am.

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“Mamalita” Book Tour goes to Bryn Mawr. “Mamalita” now in San Diego Public Library

Thursday, November 4th, 2010

I grew up at the Jersey shore and went to college in Delaware, which is why I’m so happy I get to read from Mamalita: An Adoption Memoir at the Borders Bookstore in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania. Many of my friends still live in the area, and already have promised to come. If you’re reading this, I hope you’ll consider attending, too!

Here are the details:
Friday, January 21, 2011 at 7 p.m.
Borders Bookstore–Bryn Mawr, PA
Rosemont Shopping Center
1149 Lancaster Avenue
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010
610-527-1500

My other wonderful news is that my friend, Penny (the San Diego librarian who arranged for me to read at the Santee Branch on December 3, 2010, at 10 a.m.) just informed me that Mamalita: An Adoption Memoir is now catalogued into the San Diego library system and will begin to circulate. Over the course of my lifetime, I have spent countless hours in libraries—in Mamalita‘s “Acknowledgments” section, I even thank my local Marin County system for “quiet space and needed resources”—so I’m delighted and honored to know that my book is part of San Diego’s permanent collection.

If you live in San Diego, and haven’t yet read Mamalita, get thee to your local library and check it out. (Afterwards, please buy multiple copies for everyone you know!)

Looking forward to hitting the road soon, seeing old friends, and meeting new ones.

The Mamalita Book Tour:

Saturday, November 13, 2010 at 7 p.m.
Book Passage
51 Tamal Vista Blvd.
Corte Madera, CA 94925
1-800-999-7909

Please join me for my Book Launch reading at Book Passage.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010 at 7 p.m.
Upstart Crow Bookstore
Seaport Village
835C West Harbor Drive
San Diego, CA 92110
619-232-4855

Reading and signing in San Diego.

Friday, December 3, 2010 at 10 a.m.
Santee Branch Library
9225 Carlton Hills Boulevard
Santee, CA 92071
619-448-1863

Reading in San Diego’s East County.

Sunday, December 5, 2010 at 6 p.m.
Writing Mamas Salon
Book Passage
51 Tamal Vista Blvd.
Corte Madera, CA 94925
1-800-999-7909

Reading and signing with fellow Writing Mamas Cindy Bailey, Jennifer Gunter and Dawn Yun.

Thursday, December 9, 2010 at 7:30 p.m.
Beverly Public Library
32 Essex Street
Beverly, MA 01915
978-921-6062

Reading on Boston’s North Shore.

Sunday, December 12, 2010 at 6 p.m.
Borders Bookstore-Back Bay-Boston
511 Boylston Street
Boston, Massachusetts 02116
617-236-1444

Reading and signing books in Boston.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011, at 7 p.m.
Bookworks
4022 Rio Grande Boulevard NW
Albuquerque, NM 87107
505-344-8139

Reading and signing in Albuquerque.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011 at 7 p.m.
The Regulator Bookshop
720 Ninth St.
Durham, NC 27705
319-337-2681

Reading and signing books in Durham.

Friday, January 21, 2011 at 7 p.m.
Borders Books-Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania
Rosemont Shopping Center
1149 Lancaster Avenue
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010
610-527-1500

Reading and signing books in Philadelphia area.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011 at 7 p.m.
Prairie Lights Books
15 South Dubuque Street
Iowa City, IA 52240
319-337-2681

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November is National Adoption Awareness Month

Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010

Happy National Adoption Awareness Month! When Seal Press decided to publish my book, Mamalita: An Adoption Memoir, in November, I was thrilled. While writing the book, my hope was that our experience could contribute in some small way to the dialogue surrounding adoption. What better time to publish than in the month dedicated to the subject? As it turns out, the book was released in mid-October… Close enough!  

On November 1, the U.S. State Department held a briefing on international adoption-related issues with Special Advisor for Children’s Issues Ambassador Susan Jacobs. Ambassador Jacobs answered questions regarding the implementation of the Hague Treaty; adoptions from Ethiopia, Haiti, Nepal, and other countries; as well as the currrent situation in Guatemala. 

The entire briefing is worth reading and watching.  Ambassador Jacobs’ comments regarding Guatemala, quoted below, reiterate the State Department’s commitment to resolving the unfinished cases (the “Guatemala900”) that date from the Hague Treaty shutdown, in December 2007. I join the many Americans who are still hoping for resolution for those families soon.

Regarding adoptions in Guatemala, Ambassador Susan Jacobs said:

“In terms of the [Guatemalan] pilot project, every time we asked for details about it, there weren’t any. So it turned out there really wasn’t a pilot project to which – in which we could participate. And in looking at the procedures and regulations that had been put in place, not very much had changed since adoptions had been shut down. So we are trying to work with the Guatemalan Government to help them set in place proper regulations and procedures, and at the same time, close the cases that are in the pipeline. There are hundreds of cases that need to be resolved, so we’ve asked them to focus on that.”

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Book trailer for Mamalita

Monday, November 1st, 2010

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Halloween 2010

Monday, November 1st, 2010

 

By the time we finally got out the door on Halloween night, Olivia and Mateo had undergone costume changes too numerous to count. From pirate to ghost, from princess to fairy, until sometime during dinner Mateo announced that what he really wanted to be was Santa Claus. Lucky for me, I was able to put my hand on a St. Nick hat bought a few Christmases ago, which paired nicely with Mateo’s red pajamas, black belt, and red sneakers. Unlike the original Mr. Claus, this Santa was clean-shaven. After a few itchy attempts, Mateo opted to forego the fake beard.

At her school party on Friday, Olivia had been her usual favorite, a cat, but after witnessing Mateo’s transformation, she also changed her mind. “Vampire,” she said, and I won’t bore you with the machinations required to scare up that costume. When Tim returned home with a plastic bag, we noticed the costume’s “collar” was missing. Being the creative girl that she is, Olivia cut one out of cardboard and colored it with red marker. No matter. For Olivia, a vampire costume is all about the sleeves.

There’s no denying that Halloween has gotten out of control in the United States: What other country in the world celebrates a holiday that so blatantly promotes tooth decay? But how can we resist? One night a year, our neighborhood comes alive with packs of roving children, laughing teens, and babies dressed up like bumblebees. For the next few days, our kids will sort through their Skittles and Dots, M&Ms and Reese’s, trading away the ones they don’t like, and keeping the ones they do. (Anything dark chocolate, feel free to pass my way.)

For the next few weeks, I’ll make dire predictions about our next visit to the dentist. But right now, nobody is listening.

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